Hikmah Ujian

 HIKMAH UJIAN...

Kita minta syurga

Namun pahala amalan tak seberapa

Ibarat kalau perlu 100%, mampunya 80% sahaja

Lalu...

Allah datangkan ujian

Sgt berat terasa

Dan...tak mampu buat apa2

Lantas

Sabar dan redalah

Mana tahu, berkat sabar dg ujian itulah

Allah melimpahkan kita rahmat-Nya

Mencukupkan 20% itu

Seterusnya

Penyebab kita layak ke syurga-Nya....

 

 

Perpisahan...

 

PERPISAHAN ITU...

..perpisahan itu perit dirasa, namun akan jauh lebih perit andainya kita terpaksa berpisah di sana...

Ya! Allah, Dg anugerah usia yg masih ada, bimbinglah kami & anugerahkanlah kekuatan agar mampu melipatgandakan usaha - amal kebaikan bagi meraih sebanyak mungkin pahala, ikhlas kerana-Mu semata...moga nanti kami semua layak jadi penghuni syurga-Mu & tidak terpisah lagi di sana ... sentiasa bersama dlm bahagia buat selamanya...

Ameen...

 

 

Tenanglah...

Jangan bimbang dg kesilapan masa lalu yg tak mampu diubah.
belajar daripadanya untuk berubah, agar dapat takdir yg lebih indah!

 

 

Love ...Kasih Sayang Penjana Kebahagiaan

 

 

 

 

Kasih Sayang Penjana Kebahagiaan

 

Saat Fatimah mengunjungi Rasulullah saw, baginda akan berdiri menyambutnya, memeluk dan menciumnya. Itulah tanda kasih sayang yang ditunjukkan kepada puteri kesayangan, hasil perkongsian hidup baginda bersama wanita yg dicintainya (Sayyidatina Khadijah).

Saat berbicara dengan sahabat2, Rasulullah saw tidak pernah memalingkan wajah baginda daripada mereka, malah baginda akan memberi perhatian sepenuhnya, dan akan mengadap sahabat itu dengan sempurna, tanpa  mengiring badan sedikit pun. Tanda sayang. Baginda juga akan sentiasa menghiasi bibir muliannya itu dengan senyuman manis menyenangkan.Juga tanda kasih sayang.

Lantaran perilaku baginda sedemikian, tidak hairanlah ahli keluarga yang beriman, serta sahabat2 menyayangi baginda sepenuh hati, tanpa berbelah bagi, hingga sanggup bergadai nyawa demi mempertahankan baginda.

Itulah antara kesan kasih sayang. Kita akan melakukan apa saja demi orang yg kita sayang. Kita juga perhatikan bahawa orang yang bersifat penyayang itu juga disayangi orang lain. Itu sudah menjadi sifir kehidupan. Sayangilah ... kelak kita akan disayangi!

Sayang itu datang dari hati. Dimanifestasikan melalui tutur kata dan perbuatan. Kita akan merasa senang dg orang yg menyayangi kita. Bahagia berada bersamanya. Rindu akan kehadirannya. 

Sayang itu pencetus bahagia. Ianya bermula daripa seawal kita dalam kandungan ibu – di dalam rahim. Rahim itu pun bermakna kasih sayang! Sejarah kita bermula sebagai seorang insan, kita telah ditempatkan dalam “kasih sayang”. Ke mana ibu pergi, di situlah kita selama sembilan bulan. Ke dapur. Ke hospital. Ke tempat kerja. Ke mana sahaja.

Kita bukan sekadar ditempatkan dalam “kasih sayang”, malah dijaga penuh kasih sayang.

Saat dilahirkan, pun begitu juga, disambut penuh kasih sayang. 

 

 

Bayangkan hidup tanpa kasih sayang. Hati gersang. Jiwa terhimpit. Fikiran bosan! Bahagia? Tentu hilang..

Kasih sayang itu kita akan dapat, jika kita berikan. Sifir mudah kehidupan. Ingin disayangi? Jadilah insan penyayang. Contohi Asma’ al-Husna Tuhan: Ar-Rahman: Maha Pengasih, Maha Penyang. Teladilah peribadi Junjunagn mulia, yg juga menyebarkan kasih sayang sepanjang kehidupan. Bagaiman nak jadi insan yang bersifat penyayang? Petuanya: Usahakan agar iman kita mantap dan laksanakan segala kebaikan! Ini adalah janji Allah dalam kalam suci-Nya Al-Quran:

 “Sesungguhnya orang2 yg beriman dan mengerjakan yang baik2, Yang Maha Pengasih akan mengadakan bagi mereka perasaan kasih sayang (sesamanya). Surah Maryam 19:96.

Jom! Raihlah bahagia dengan menjadi insan penyayang!

 

 

*The Sky Gets Dark, Slowly*

Such a nice read not just for senior citizens but for all of us. Getting old is a reality that we need to embrace and prepare for 😊

*The Sky Gets Dark, Slowly*

Mao Dun literary prize winner Zhou Daxin’s latest novel to be published, “The Sky Gets Dark, Slowly”, is a sensitive exploration of old age and the complex, hidden emotional worlds of the elderly in a rapidly ageing population.

In it he writes, “…Many elderly speak as though they know everything, but of old age they are in fact as ignorant as children. Many elderly are in fact, completely unprepared for what they are to face when it comes to getting old and the road that lays ahead of them.

In the time between a person turning 60 years old, as they begin to age, right until all the lights go out and the sky gets dark, there are some situations to keep in mind, so that you will be prepared for what is to come, and you will not panic.

1.
The people by your side will only continue to grow smaller in number. People in your parents’ and grandparents’ generation have largely all left, whilst many your peers will increasingly find it harder to look after themselves, and the younger generations will all be busy with their own lives. Even your wife or husband may depart earlier than you, or than you would expect, and what might then come are days of emptiness. You will have to learn how to live alone, and to enjoy and embrace solitude.

2.
Society will care less and less for you. No matter how glorious your previous career was or how famous you were, ageing will always transform you into a regular old man and old lady. The spotlight no longer shines on you, and you have to learn to contend with standing quietly in one corner, to admire and appreciate the hubbub and views that come after you, and you must overcome the urge to be envious or grumble.

3.
The road ahead will be rocky and full of precarity. Fractures, cardio-vascular blockages, brain atrophy, cancer… these are all possible guests that could pay you a visit any time, and you would not be able to turn them away. You will have to live with illness and ailments, to view them as friends, even; do not fantasise about stable, quiet days without any trouble in your body. Maintaining a positive mentality and get appropriate, adequate exercise is your duty, and you have to encourage yourself to keep at it consistently.

4.
Prepare for bed-bound life, a return to the infant state. Our mothers brought us into this world on a bed, and after a journey of twists and turns and a life of struggle, we return to our starting point – the bed – and to the state of having to be looked after by others. The only difference being, where we once had our mothers to care for us, when we prepare to leave, we may not have our kin to look after us. Even if we have kin, their care may never come close to that of your mother’s; you will, more likely than not, be cared for by nursing staff who bear zero relation to you, wearing smiles on their faces all whilst carrying weariness and boredom in their hearts. Lay still and don’t be difficult; remember to be grateful.

5.
There will be many swindlers and scammers along the way. Many of them know that the elderly have lots of savings, and will endlessly be thinking of ways to cheat them of their money: through scam phone calls, text messages, mail, food and product samples, get-rich-quick schemes, products for longevity or enlightenment… basically, all they want is to get all the money. Beware, and be careful, hold your money close to you. A fool and his money are soon parted, so spend your pennies wisely.

Before the sky gets dark, the last stretches of life’s journey will gradually get dimmer and dimmer; naturally, it will be harder to see the path ahead that you are treading towards, and it will be harder to keep going forward. As such, upon turning 60, it would do us all well to see life for what it is, to cherish what we have, to enjoy life whilst we can, and to not take on society’s troubles or your children’s and grandchildren’s affairs on for yourself. Stay humble, don’t act superior on account of your own age and talk down to others – this will hurt yourself as much as it will hurt others. As we get older, all the better should we be able to understand what respect is and what it counts for. In these later days of your lives, you have to understand what it means, to let go of your attachments, to mentally prepare yourself. The way of nature is the way of life; go with its flow, and live with equanimity.

*******For all of us, a nice read, very beautiful, very true .... !

Hardly the day started and ... it is already six o'clock in the evening.

Barely arrived on Monday and it's already Friday.

... and the month is almost over.
... and the year is almost up.
... and already 50 or 60 or 70 years of our lives have passed.
... and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.
and we realize that it is too late to go back ...

So ... Let's try to take full advantage of the time we have left ...
Let's not stop looking for activities that we like ...
Let's put color in our greyness ...
Let's smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.

And yet, we must continue to enjoy serenely the time that remains.
Let's try to eliminate the "after" ...
I do it after ...
I will say after ...
I will think about it after ...
We leave everything for 'later' as if "after" was ours.

Because what we do not understand is that:
after, the coffee cools ...
after, priorities change ...
after, the charm is broken ...
after, health passes ...
after, the children grow up ...
after, the parents get older ...
after, the promises are forgotten ...
after, the day becomes the night ...
after, life ends ...
And all that afters, we find it's often too late ....

So ... leave nothing for 'later' ...
Because in always waiting for later, we can lose the best moments,
the best experiences,
the best friends,
the best family ...
The day is today ... The moment is now ...

We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone until tomorrow what needs to be done right away.

So let's see if you'll have time to read this message and then share it.

Or maybe you'll leave it for ... "later" ...
And you will not share it "ever" ....

Even share with those who are not yet "seniors".

May you be well and happy 🙏🙏🙏